Well, the camp was very nice, i enjoyed the camp with our fellow prefect candidates. Although sometimes we enjoy, but we still had bad time too. However, we learn to get through the bad time, we overcome them!
After the camp, something bad happened actually... We just wanna advice someone we care since we are friends and a board... should i say, 'family'... But it's sad to say that, we failed. It is because of the ego, stubborn and the pride which are implanted inside the core of the person and they never change... They can never accept other people's feeling, opinion, and even comments!! We tried to help but in the end, we end up to be in trouble.
So i just wanna tell anyone who read my blog that try to open your heart and accept other's feeling, opinion, comments. It may harm or hurt you but it will help you in the future to prevent you yourself to repeat the same mistake again. Remember, people, friends comment about you because they care about you, they want you to change into a better person but if you don't accept it and being so stubborn, it is your fault when you got your future all destroyed.
Friends, it takes years and years to build up the relationship, respect, and trust among your friends but it will only take few seconds to destroy everything...
So try to accept things with your heart wide open. All the best, and God Bless Everyone...
(I hope people may also comment about me so that i can change into a better person... Hahax...)
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It's good that you guys want to advice your friend but, the way to do so is very important. Using the wrong way will cause trouble. If the friend doesn't accept the advice, it's not his/her fault but everybody's fault. One is the ones who want to give advice because the way used may be wrong and they might not understand the friend's feelings and attitude fully. Second is the friend because he/she might be stubborn and doesn't understand why those who want to advice her do so.
Pride, egoism and misunderstandings are always the factors to cause problems.
What they all need is the trust. Without trust problems will come flowing..
^_'
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